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Dale Carnegie – How to Win Friends and Influence People

 

Leadership gravitates to the man who can talk

Dealing with people is probably the biggest problem you face, especially if you a business man

About 15 per cent of one’s financial success is due to one’s technical knowledge and about 85 per cent is due to skill in human engineering – to personality and the ability to lead people

When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity

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A great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little men

The deepest urge in human nature is the desire to be important

Arouse enthusiasm among the men

Appreciation and encouragement

Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him

The only way to influence people is to talk in terms of what the other person wants

Self-expression is the dominant necessity of human nature

A dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love

One can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people than one can in two years by trying to get other people interested in him

People are not interested in you. They are not interested in me. They are interested in themselves-morning, noon, and after dinner

It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life

Become genuinely interested in other people.

Smile had been worth a million dollars.

Force yourself to smile

Remember names and make people feel important

Listening is one of the highest compliments we can pay to anyone

Exclusive attention to the person who is speaking to you is very important

Encourage others to talk about themselves

Talk in terms of the other man’s interests

Always make the other person feel important

It is impossible to defeat an ignorant man by argument

Hatred is never ended by hatred but by love

If you want enemies, excel your friends; but if you want friends, let your friends excel you

Let the other man do a great deal of the talking

Let the other fellow feel that the idea is his.

Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view

Appeal to the nobler motives

Dramatize your ideas

Throw down a challenge

Begin with praise and honest appreciation

Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly

Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

Let the other man save his face

Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement

Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise

Assume a virtue if you have it not

Give a man a fine reputation to live up to

Use encouragement

Make the fault you want to correct seem easy to correct

Make the thing you want the other person to do seem easy to do

Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest

SEVEN RULES FOR MAKING YOUR HOME LIFE HAPPIER

  • Rule 1: Don’t nag.
  • Rule 2: Don’t try to make your partner over.
  • Rule 3: Don’t criticize.
  • Rule 4: Give honest appreciation.
  • Rule 5: Pay little attentions.
  • Rule 6: Be courteous.
  • Rule 7: Read a good book on the sexual side of marriage.

 

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